You Can Be Kind Without Carrying It

You Can Be Kind Without Carrying It

For a long time, I associated kindness with helping. If someone needed something, I wanted to help. If there was a problem I could solve, I often stepped in. If someone was struggling, I wanted to make things easier. Those instincts aren’t wrong. Compassion matters....
When Letting Go Feels Like Letting People Down

When Letting Go Feels Like Letting People Down

Knowing something needs to change is one thing. Actually changing it can be much harder. Especially when other people are involved. You may recognize that a responsibility no longer belongs in this season. You may know a commitment is taking more from you than it...
What Matters Most Rarely Shouts

What Matters Most Rarely Shouts

Some of the most important things in our lives are remarkably quiet. Our health. Our marriage. Our spiritual life. Our relationships. Our peace. The work we feel called to do. They usually don’t send an urgent email. They don’t interrupt a meeting. They don’t always...
Not Everything Important Looks Productive

Not Everything Important Looks Productive

There are seasons when I can look back over a week and immediately see what I accomplished. The project was finished. The content was created. The boxes were checked. And then there are weeks like this one. Much of my time was spent caring for people I love. Helping...
What Your Calendar Reveals

What Your Calendar Reveals

We can say something matters to us. Our faith. Our health. Our marriage. Our family. Our calling. The work we believe God has given us to do. But eventually, there is another question worth asking: Does the way I spend my time reflect what I say matters most? I’ve...